FAILURE-SUCCESS…The students were challenged to consider the interaction of these two fundamental realities of life.
KHORI…uses her very mixed feelings over the loss of a special family member to remind us all that in order to help others you must first be able to help yourself.
Failure*Success
The definition of failure is the lack of success. Throughout my life I’ve experienced many different forms of failure. I’ve always been the type of person who believed that everyone can change, even when they fail. I thought I was a prime example. If I can fail and keep trying, then surely everyone can, right?
No, I was wrong. Last year I was a freshman, and I’m sure everyone knows that, when you’re a freshman, you have to show an enormous amount of perseverance. I expected everyone around me to show the same amount of perseverance ,and this unfortunately led to my demise.
I had a family member that passed away from drug use last year,and I felt the failure she inflicted on herself ,and the rest of the family. As a kid, I would often see her in a lot of pain. Pain from losing her closest family members from old age ,and pain from her own failure to stop using drugs. I remember always being in her room, and asking her questions of what she used to be like, how she used to act, and all of her regrets. It’s still hard for me to acknowledge the fact that she’s actually gone.
During her funeral, I was so angry that she...